Good Morning,
Have you ever found yourself in a situation where the people around you start speaking in a language you do not understand? This can be frustrating, especially in international environments where different cultures and languages are present. Sometimes, individuals from the same country may begin conversing in their native language, not considering that others in the group may not understand. While it is important to speak your mother tongue, it is equally important to be mindful of others’ feelings. I have been in situations where people were speaking in Polish or Chinese, and I could not understand a word, which made me feel left out.
Let us strive to be more inclusive when sharing our native languages in international settings. Thank you!
I must admit, I have made that mistake myself. I have spoken my own language in front of people who did not understand it and realized how uncomfortable it can be. It is awkward for the person who does not speak your language or the predominant language in that setting. They might think you are talking about them, even if you are not, which can make them feel excluded.
What I am trying to convey is that if you are in an international group (such as a mix of French, Italian, Colombian, etc.) and there is a common language that everyone understands, like English or Norwegian here in Norway, use that language. Do not wait for your Italian friend and start speaking Italian when no one else understands. It is simply not polite. However, if you are alone with someone from your own country, feel free to speak your language.
Speaking your language in front of others who do not understand it is not the way to gain positive attention. It does not make you look cool; it just makes you appear as a showoff.
Therefore, whenever you are in a group of people who speak different languages, if there is any doubt about being understood, just switch to a common language.
It is all about respect and consideration.
What do you think about this? Has it ever happened to you? How did you feel?





